The Momentum Podcast

How do I create more time? How do I get organized so I can finally relax and enjoy my life? How do I improve my energy? How do I ask for help? How can I be more patient with my kids? How can I be more present? How can I find time for self-care? How do I help my child who is struggling with his/her mental health? How do I make time for a girl’s night out? How can I find balance in my life? How can I improve communication with my spouse? If you’ve ever asked yourself (or Google) any of these questions, then this show is for you! The Mom-entum podcast aims to serve overwhelmed Moms who struggle to find balance. It’s a place for Moms to find solutions to problems and get support all along the way. As they say, “it takes a village”. Many of us feel like where is the village? We feel like we have no help. We feel like we must do it alone. And although we are never alone, we can’t even go to the bathroom without a kid infringing on our privacy, we ironically feel so lonely at times. The Mom-entum podcast bypasses the small talk and gets right into the real struggles Moms face every day. We talk to real moms who are deep in the trenches as well as the ones who have been there and have come to share what they’ve learned along the way. Each week, I’ll introduce new ways of thinking and discuss tangible, actionable tools that you can implement to simplify your life and promote peace and joy in your home. Go from treading water to finally finding your flow in motherhood.

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Episodes

Wednesday Oct 23, 2024

In this episode of The Mom-entum Podcast, I sit down with my best friend, Sheena Giordano, a breast cancer survivor and mom of two young girls.
Sheena opens up about her journey—from discovering her first symptom to receiving the diagnosis at 31, all while raising a 1-year-old and 3-year-old.
We talk about the importance of advocating for your health, trusting your gut, and making time for self-care. Sheena shares powerful advice on why moms should prioritize their well-being and offers encouragement to anyone facing a similar journey.
I also touch on the amazing breast cancer awareness event hosted by my cousin Nikki Morris and her new Foundation,Organized Angels, as well as the businesses that made it all possible. Whether you’re looking for guidance on breast cancer prevention or a story of resilience, this episode is for you!
 
For links to the generous sponsors of the Breast Cancer Event, plus detailed instructions on how to perform a breast self-exam and guidelines for breast cancer screening, visit the show notes here.

One Year In- What is Buffering?

Wednesday Oct 09, 2024

Wednesday Oct 09, 2024

Welcome to a special episode of The Mom-entum Podcast as we celebrate one incredible year together! In this anniversary episode, I’m reflecting on my journey from overwhelmed mom to podcast host, and sharing one of the most important lessons I’ve learned along the way: how to stop avoiding what really matters by understanding the concept of buffering.
 
We all do it—whether it’s scrolling on our phones, snacking when we are not hungry, or doing anything that helps us avoid uncomfortable emotions like overwhelm, frustration, or fear. But what if you could break the cycle and take action, even when it feels daunting? In this episode, I’ll explain:
 
What buffering is and why it happens
How to identify when you’re buffering and avoiding important tasks
Practical strategies to overcome procrastination and start taking action with ease
 
This episode is all about getting unstuck and recognizing the potential you have, even when fear and doubt get in the way. Let’s break free from the avoidance habits that hold us back and step into our full power.
 
Plus, we’re celebrating this milestone together—thank you for being part of this amazing journey! 🎉
 
Listen now and learn how to stop buffering, take action, and celebrate your own growth alongside this special one-year milestone of The Mom-entum Podcast.
 
For notes and resources mentioned in today's show click here.

Wednesday Oct 02, 2024

In this episode of The Mom-entum Podcast, we explore the transformative concept that circumstances are neutral. I’ll show you how our thoughts, not the events themselves, create our feelings and experiences. Discover how to separate facts from emotions, embrace the 50/50 balance of life, and reclaim your personal power by shifting your mindset. Whether you’re dealing with stress, overwhelm, or challenging situations, this episode will help you gain clarity and take back control. Tune in for practical insights and empowering strategies!
For show notes and free resources visit tanyavalentinecoaching.com/55

Wednesday Sep 25, 2024

Ever feel stuck, unmotivated, or overwhelmed by the mountain of things you know you need to do but just can’t seem to get started? In this episode of The Mom-entum Podcast, I'm diving deep into the secret to breaking through—MOMENTUM.
 
I’m sharing practical, actionable steps you can take today to start building momentum in any area of your life, whether it’s weight loss, chasing a personal goal, or simply being more present with your kids. You’ll also hear the inspiring story of how this podcast got its name and why momentum is the ultimate key to creating lasting change.
 
If you’ve been putting off that one thing you really want to do, or if you’re struggling to keep up with life’s demands, this episode will give you the push you need to get moving and start seeing results. Because once you have momentum on your side, nothing can stop you.
For free resources visit the show notes page by clicking here.

Wednesday Sep 18, 2024

In this episode of The Mom-entum Podcast, I explore how mastering your mindset is the key to unlocking your true potential. Inspired by the incredible story of David Goggins, I share my personal experience running a 5K race and how his words fueled me to push beyond my limits. We'll dive into the power of mental toughness, how to callous your mind to face life’s challenges, and why discomfort is necessary for growth. Whether you're running a race, striving toward a goal, or just navigating the ups and downs of motherhood, this episode will inspire you to raise your standards, challenge your limits, and unleash the power within you.
 
Tune in for a candid, motivational conversation about resilience, self-discipline, and the incredible things we can achieve when we conquer our minds.
 
For resources mentioned in today's episode visit the show notes page at tanyavalentinecoaching.com/53

Wednesday Sep 11, 2024

In this special episode, I’m excited to welcome back my dear friend and best-selling author, Carolyn Deck! Carolyn made her first appearance on Episode 17, where she shared her powerful journey of overcoming struggles through faith and mindset shifts. Today, she returns to dive into an important topic—nurturing your relationship with your spouse, especially amidst the beautiful chaos of motherhood.
 
Tune in as we discuss why it’s essential to put your spouse first, how to address unmet expectations, and the mindset shifts you can adopt to strengthen your marriage without feeling overwhelmed. Carolyn, with 34 years of marriage under her belt, shares her hard-earned wisdom and practical advice for making your relationship a priority—even when life gets busy.
 
In this episode, you'll learn:
- How to avoid resentment by addressing and communicating unfair expectations.
- Simple steps to prioritize your relationship when you're feeling overwhelmed.
- How your beliefs about marriage shape your relationship and how to shift them.
- The importance of understanding your partner’s perspective to foster love and compassion.
 
For resources mentioned in this episode, visit the show notes page at tanyavalentinecoaching.com/52.
 
Connect with Carolyn:
- Facebook: Carolyn Deck
- Instagram: @carolyn.deck
 
Want to Win a $50 Amazon Gift Card?  
Leave a review, send a screenshot, and enter to win by September 18th! Full details at tanyavalentinecoaching.com/52.
 
If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review and share it on social media! Don't forget to tag Carolyn and me—we’d love to hear from you!

Wednesday Sep 04, 2024

In this episode, I’m getting real about a struggle I’ve been facing—whether to continue with this podcast and my life coaching business. As a mom of three young kids, I’ve been feeling torn, trying to give my all to everything and everyone, but finding myself stretched too thin.
 
A recent message I heard on The Daily Hope Podcast hit home: “You can’t parent in your spare time.” It made me realize that my children need me fully present right now, and I’ve decided to prioritize them during this fleeting season of their lives.
 
I’ll share how I’m learning to let go of the need for control, embrace the messiness of motherhood, and live more in alignment with my values. This means putting life coaching on hold and shifting the podcast to a less frequent schedule, but it’s a choice I’m at peace with.
 
Tune in to hear more about this journey and why letting go is sometimes the best way to hold on to what truly matters.
 
If this resonates with you, please consider leaving a rating and review—it helps sustain my efforts in producing this podcast and allows me to connect with more moms like you. Until next time, remember, you’re not alone on this journey. We’re in this together!
 
For resources mentioned in today's episode, visit the show notes page at tanyavalentinecoaching.com/51

Wednesday Aug 28, 2024

Welcome to the 50th episode of The Mom-entum Podcast! I can hardly believe we’ve reached this milestone, and I want to take a moment to thank each and every one of you for joining me on this wild ride. Week after week, we’ve explored the ups and downs of motherhood, finding camaraderie and solidarity in knowing we’re not alone in our struggles. Together, we’ve learned from each other’s mistakes and wins, all while striving to become the very best versions of ourselves.
 
In this special episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on my life, sharing personal stories and reflections that I’ve never shared before on this podcast. We’ll dive into the transformative power of motherhood, the challenges of self-improvement, and the importance of loving ourselves so we can show up as our best selves for our families and the world.
 
I’ll also take you on a journey through my career transitions, from hairstylist to nurse to life coach and podcast host. How did I get here? It all began when I became a mom. And trust me, this story is one you don’t want to miss.
 
So whether you’re a long-time listener or tuning in for the first time, this episode is packed with raw, vulnerable insights and reflections that will resonate deeply. Plus, stick around until the end to find out how you can enter to win a special giveaway in celebration of the 50th episode!
 
Let’s continue this journey together, as friends and sisters, lifting each other up and striving for growth and love every step of the way.
 
For notes from today's show and free resources click here.

Wednesday Aug 21, 2024

Feeling stuck in a fog of confusion? It’s time to break free! In this episode of The Mom-entum Podcast, I dive deep into the hidden fears that keep us paralyzed in uncertainty and indecision. We’ll explore why confusion often feels safe, even as it holds us back from making progress in our lives.
 
I’ll share the 5 powerful steps that have helped me—and can help you—move from confusion to clarity. Whether you’re struggling to make a big life decision, stuck in a rut, or simply overwhelmed by too many choices, this episode is your guide to overcoming the fear of the unknown and taking decisive action. Tune in to discover how to regain your momentum and start creating the life you truly want!
 
For notes from todays show and for free valuable resources that will support you on your journey click here!

Wednesday Aug 14, 2024

Welcome to another episode of the Mom-entum Podcast, where we inspire, uplift, and empower women on their journey through motherhood. Today, I’m joined by my cousin Leah Barnes, a mother of five who shares her journey of navigating the challenges of helping her 12-year-old daughter, Ellie, thrive in school despite her dyslexia.
 
In this episode, we discuss the trials and triumphs Leah has faced, emphasizing that difficulty in reading does not equate to a lack of intelligence. With dyslexia affecting approximately 20% of the population, it’s essential to understand its implications and how to support our children effectively. We explore valuable strategies for early intervention, advocacy, and creating a positive learning environment.
 
If you’re looking for concrete ways to support your child with dyslexia, be sure to check out the show notes by clicking here for a comprehensive list of resources and actionable tips that can help you and your child succeed. Together, we can alleviate the struggles and celebrate the strengths of our unique learners!
 
Visit the show notes at tanyavalentinecoaching.com/48 for a wealth of resources and tools to assist you and your child on this journey. Remember, you are not alone—help is out there, and together, we can make a difference!
 
If you found this episode helpful, please share it with someone who might benefit. Let’s work together to create a supportive community for all mothers navigating the complexities of raising children with learning differences. Connect with us on Instagram and Facebook, and share your thoughts and takeaways from today’s show!

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